eliot+ren
We can think about what the list should be maybe and then decide. I want to marry you, Eliot. I’d do it tonight if I could. But we should probably do a bit more planning than that.
Before would work. I vaguely remember a ceremony I attended as a child that had multiple partners and used a scarf to thread between them each. I cannot remember much about it outside of that, but perhaps we could find something like that. I just was thinking mostly that while we all know where we stand, I want everyone to understand that we’re family - all of us. And I want Fen to know that too. I care about both of you.