eliot+ren
There doesn't feel like there aren't many more after those. I don't know. Maybe it'd just be simpler to have everyone blanket involved. We can figure it out. Were you wanting to have this be a long engagement or something quicker of a turn around?
We might want to do the commitment as a family before our vows. I'm not saying we need to follow tradition, because we clearly aren't, but most people expect that once the vows are given, the ceremony is over. And I've heard of having commitments made in situations where there are children becoming stepchildren. There is a precedent for that so making a commitment as a family, both to Fen and Fray, would be a nice gesture. And I'd like to make clear Fen is a part of this. I want her to continue to feel important.