eliot+ren
That's about what I was thinking but even without adding in a few more it's still around twenty. Quentin, Margo, Alice, Kady, Julia, my other self, Fen, Fray, Petunia, Dudley, and Harry would round out the Cottage, former or present. Then your Mother. We'd invite the other Leia, too, I presume? Anakin and Padme. If we allow for dates, almost all of those will have a plus one. So. More than twenty. [...] As for others I care about seeing the ceremony? Rogue definitely. Annie if she ever returns. Damon if he ever remembers.
I'd like for us to exchange our vows to one another. A commitment with Fen as well, during the ceremony, would be something I'd be open to should Fen be interested. We can try to figure out how we want that to look ourselves.