leia/ben.
Do I need you remind you that the last time you met with Luke, you were trying to slaughter all of my people? Or that the time before that, you killed an entire Temple full of human beings, some were younglings? Your anger and rage turned into Force tantrums when you were little. I hear stories of how your own troops were terrified of you because you would destroy whatever was around you when things didn't go the way you wanted. That's not afraid of anger.
I wasn't suggesting that you were over-reacting. I was cautioning you not to, so tell me again how you're not over-reacting now?