I don't know if anyone wants my two cents or anything but...
She just sounds really sad? And some times people don't make the best choices when they're dealing with things.
Um.
It sounds like she just needs her friends. And maybe we need to build a better support group. If the Avengers on their world don't have a great history with them, maybe we just need to do more things with them so show them we aren't like that.
Maybe not balls, because not everyone likes those. But maybe more displaced activities? Like paint ball tournaments or a weekly AMA on the net. Stuff like that. This probably sounds stupid.