rhy maresh (goldenhelm) wrote in thedisplaced, |
Firstly, I did not interpret your refusal as rude. I asked all of my guests to dance, except those who had already made it clear they did not want a dance. I did not make any distinctions between guests regarding gender or any other [...] perceptions about them.
But the way you phrase that does sound as though you think there is something wrong with being perceived as having inclinations towards the same gender, or with demonstrating those inclinations in public. If you think it about yourself, I am concerned you feel the same about me.