johanna/baelfire
You'd probably only have to go the one time.
He sounds jealous. And there's nothing to be ashamed of.
Do you really think forgetting about it is going to work? I think it's better to figure out what you felt and work through it. That way it isn't lingering. Admitting how you feel doesn't mean you are negating your other relationships. Emotions are too tricky to work that way.