Steve | Julia
I was going to go with the joke and move on but if you want to lay everything out...
I think you're very good at self-sabotage.
But I also think maybe I encouraged Q to go for what he wanted instead of listening to the signals you were giving him. So, for my part in any hurt or confusion, I'm sorry.
That said, I don't think I deserved the passive aggressive treatment from you at the ball. I have been pretty damn encouraging on my end of Q's friendship with you. If you had talked to me instead of pretending not to know who I was, you would have known that.
Figure out your own shit and the rest will probably fall into place.