leia/padmé.
He knows that. I can't pretend to understand why he did what he did - any of it - but I can say that he's not the same person who did that. He will deal with it, and of course Han is entitled to feel whatever he feels in return, but forcing them into a conversation won't help matters, and pushing him to face Han too soon could result in the rift between them growing wider.
I understand that incredibly well, believe me. Ackb Luke? I'm not asking you or anyone else to automatically accept him or forgive the pain he's caused you. I wish there was something I could do to take back all that happened to all of you.