Pidge | Anakin
She is at home. Whether or not she is here, she is at home. She is as happy (or sad) as she will be there. That's how this portal with alternate dimensions work. Not sure entirely of its limitations. But pretty sure you're not a horrible person to want her here. She say anything like that. not wanting to be here? Before she left?
You're not the same because you're not Jaina. Twin thing or not. But you're YOU. And you're his brother. You're just as important.