All of them except the steakhouse have a decent vegetarian menu. Do you want me to bring the menus over so you can pick the best place for us?
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Things like this restaurant outing. Basically, anything that doesn't involve him tidying up and cooking for everyone and doing all those butler things he does because he deserves a break from that.
Maybe take him to a show or see a movie. Something you'd both enjoy.