Bruce | Tony
See, that's what I kept telling them, but then you get to that whole 'kid' thing. It's hard to convince the over 30 set that you know just as much if not more than they do when all they see is all their party hardy teenage years. Despite the fact that I'd been Iron Man longer than yours had at the time. But then we had a 'you might've created Ultron' scare that didn't help opinions and is actually where most of the yelling came from. Plus trying to find room in one world for three-ish Starks doing business was... interesting.
Again, no prob.
I can't really say how Bruce lived in my world. He tended to come and go with Rick keeping Hulk in line. Or trying to at least. And hey, don't do that. I'm tougher than I look and my experience says that I usually need to be worrying about whatever made you mad.