I based my opinions on what you initially said. If your opinion changed after I responded, then clearly I was not privy to that. You called it weird, you suggested it wasn't even chess, and you said it was a waste. That could be all quite insulting to someone who cares about wizards chess, and it seems I'm not the only one who had that impression from what you've said,l. I understand that now, you see your mistake in using that language, and I'm glad you're able to see how isolating and thoughtless those statements were in the first place. My friend only wanted to share something she enjoyed. There was no harm in that, and no need to express your opinion in a way that brings another person down.