It's not necessarily wrong. I just don't know who you're trying to be here or who you expect me to be. You were the boss, and then you went rogue. Here, I can't figure out what you want this to be.
I don't feel like you really have my back here. If someone treated one of the other members of the team how I've been treated, you would have intervened. But not for me. Because I'm not really one of you, am I?