I'm sure my help probably isn't needed or warranted but I feel compelled to tell you I'm here for you guys. I appreciate what you've done. And I've got my fingers crossed for you.
I'm so sorry all those bad things happened you described below. I hadn't heard it in those very specific terms before. There was similar stuff where I'm from. So, I get the whole 'distrustful' thing. Lots of folks look at me like I could kill them.