ยป For most people, yeah. Master Skywalker was training an entirely new group of Jedi, but Ren murdered all of them. ยป In my opinion, love is general one of the things that makes the galaxy a better place. It's what allows us to be better than anger and greed and selfishness. But with the wrong person, love can lead to all of those. ยป But you're right. That's still the choice we make. We have free will.