I agree. To a certain extent. Some people think there are words better left unsaid, and that isn't always the case.
Really, it depends on the circumstances! Everyone's different, and you're right, ones thoughts and feelings should be private. They should be the one making the decisions and not be forced.
Still wish I knew how all of this happened. We have a truth potion back home, but it's incredible difficult to make, and I doubt we have all the ingredients here. It must be another form of magic I'm not familiar with.