You can be both. It's all perspective. Someone might think I don't talk enough. Some people might think I talk too much. Personally, I think it's talk too much, because I have a tendency to fill awkward silence with awkward talking.
And we are the same age, but you could like really young girls. Or cougars. Either way is fine, you know, but some people don't like people their own age.
I don't want to. I really don't, because rejection is already bad enough once. I don't want it a second time.