It is a stupid sounding word. But I like it, because love is kind of stupid. Any kind, but especially the fluttery head over heels kind. I'm totally stupid about love. Just ask my wife.
I think marriage involves a little bit of ownership, but it goes both ways, at least a little bit. Lily totally owns me, and I'm completely okay with that. Maybe you should think of it as owning Hawke. I mean, if he's cool with that. I would totally help you guys put your wedding together and write a toast and everything, if that was what you wanted.