It is nearly impossible to not like Lito when he's in his element. He's .... effervescent. Outgoing. Unbelievably charming and sexy. He makes you feel like you are his entire world, no matter who you are. I like to think my father would have enjoyed that.
While I don't know if temporary comfort is the answer, I think as it's not an answer I will ever have, it is likely better to do so, yes.