Max+Jacen
I didn't say they were easy, just the differences of opinions were sometimes easier to deal with than the other changes.
One of my sisters had a kid of her own. She'd gotten married. The guy that was trying to find us came after her, and her family. We actually had similar philosophies on things I think, but it didn't work out so well.
I think the important thing, whatever the situation is that you have someone who can support you through them. At least, if I've learned anything this year, I think that's what I've learned.