Ehhhh half of that's just London wanting to put you in a box before it's time to actually put you in a box. They all like their definitions. It didn't matter to Father what you chose, yeah? So if Henry shows and you want to work it out, or if he doesn't and you've got to sort something else out... just make sure it's what you want, yeah? Even if it's boring. I'll just be like to trip and "accidentally" stab someone if you settle and wind up unhappy.
'Sides, it's not as if my finding things easy actually works out for me. Wound up with my likeliest romantic prospects being a mad gangster who sends off dead pets as love letters and the prime minister's wife.