So that is not so much an issue specifically but you did deal with other issues and barriers to your choice given your species?
I believe he is likely interested in both. If he's not interested in women he's doing a very thorough job of pretending he is.
It's just that I dont know how to broach the subject. Such things have never, I suppose it's never occoured to me until now, until all that free time I spoke of. And he has such faith in me. I worry he'd become defensive.
I think you're right and I need to make him aware our friendship would not be affected no matter whom he loves. But I'm not sure quite how