leia/mara.
When we first got here, Han was just about to go into the carbonite. We were on the same page. Then he woke up in the middle of the night, screaming Chewie's name and telling me he got a head full of new memories that included Chewie dying.
He's asked me to marry him several times. I've said yes a few times, and yet... Makes me think he's not all that serious.