kaidanne
We met when we were put on a mission together on the Normandy. It was supposed to be a shakedown run on Eden Prime, but it was a lot more complicated than that. We're talking conspiracy-to-end-the-universe bad, involving a Spectre, so Shepard was fighting tooth and nail against the Council to be listened to and believed.
I fell in love with him while we were working together to track Saren down. I don't know how it happened, or when, I just knew that one day he looked at me and smiled and ... I don't know, I was lost.
I never said anything. I didn't know he was interested in men, but even if he was I didn't want to disrupt the chain of command. There was a mission, and the last thing anyone needed was me being completely unprofessional by telling my Commander I was in love with him.