Mum
I think your not doing it on purpose is probably a good sign.
Look, here's the thing. I have always thought that I turned out pretty good. I got good marks in school, I'm relatively well socialized (though I've always figured that mostly is due to the high number of cousins I grew up with), and I'm reasonably intelligent. These are all good things, I assume, and things that I wouldn't have achieved if I didn't have good parents.