But I'm not asking about the shoulds, Sera. I want my wedding day to special, not just for me and Cullen, but for those friends I've made here, and with whom I will be sharing the entire day. My wedding won't be about dowries or titles. It never would be, even were I in England.
On the day you and Asala married, did you simply come together and speak vows in front of someone, or did you share things? Like wearing a necklace that is special to you, or anything. That's what I'm trying to do, to make the day special and to honor Ferelden's traditions in some small way while also doing the same for my own.