lily + severus
You don't need to be friends with them. You just need not to fight.
II am I miss being your friend and I miss thinking well of you. But I can't split my loyalties because you lot are always snipping at each other. James is my husband, Sirius and Remus are my best friends, and we all live together now. I don't expect you to pull them into loving embraces here, I just need not to feel like I'm being pulled in two different directions because none of you can make nice.
Part of your problem is probably that you guessed, instead of just asking what makes me happy.