No, I'm not. It is good advice. If someone actually notices they're hurt, they should definitely get it looked at.
I'm saying that if people don't come to you right away, it might not be because they're brushing whatever it is off or they don't agree with what you said up there or because they're trying to be tough. Maybe we can all just try to watch out for each other and make sure our neighbors are going to you if they need to.