Penelope/Cullen
Not where I come from, at least. In the upper classes there's more of that, I suppose. For my class of people it usually just meant dressing in whatever the best thing you owned was. The feasting and all tended to be a whole village affair. Traditionally the wedding is blessed by a Sister or Mother of the Chantry in a ceremony, rings are exchanged, and the wedding is entered into the village Chantry's records, and there you have it.