I think we just sort of need to be in contact. I saw a vampire do their thing and it was a lot more 'look in to my eyes you're getting sleeeeepy'. Ours seems, lighter. Like we're just talking and they're listening, they kind of make the decision themselves from what I saw just obviously based off suggestion.
Its nothing I'd do unless I absolutely had to.
...magic with dead people? Is that for real a thing, like zombies?