Yes. We are bound to forget, which is why we've consistently extended an olive branch to you even while we were running against you. That you won't take it is your problem, not ours. You can't complain that your priorities are off and then reject our attempts to make up for that.
I've put the work into this place. I've organized people, as have you. I've taken charge in a crisis when people needed it and I lost a limb defending this place. If I'm confident, it's because I've earned it.
Do you think my magic got me ahead in my life? Ever? That I'm a mage and that I'm Qunari are two massive points against me at home. When they tell stories of the Inquisitor long after I'm dead, they'll conveniently erase both of those facts, just as they did to my predecessor, and any religious connotation with my title was given to me entirely without my desire or my consent. I earned my title. I've earned my place here. I won't apologize for myself.