No, you were far from the worst resident of that city. Honestly, you were one of the few who surprised me in a good way. Most of them surprised me by being rage-maddened abominations, lyrium-addled power-mad killers, and so on. You, on the other hand, always seemed like you were about to start breaking things and killing people at any second, and then turned out to be rather decent.
Yes, that was the last I saw of her, as well. That's why I was surprised to hear that she was the blood mage. She was still serving as defender of her people when I left for the Inquisition.