Re: mj/flash.
There are pros for knowing, for sure, but there are just as many pros to not knowing. Do you have any idea what it's like to know that you will never be first in someone's life? And then how guilty you feel whenever you just want one night with your boyfriend, knowing that people could be killed because of it? Then have to watch them on TV, knowing that all it takes is the twist of one knife, and they are gone for good? And you have no one to talk to about it?