It was never like that back home. Even before we started doing things, it was still a normal part of life that other people were.
I mean like Billy says, maybe she's a real person who's around somewhere, but that's still not the same thing. And I don't know how it would work if she wasn't born yet for most of the time. Neither option's any good, it's different from someone dying.
Though if you wanted to treat it that way I think you've got the right.