He saw that she had her arms wrapped around herself, and some part of him said that he should go and hold her instead, but he didn't want to do that while they were having this conversation. He didn't know if he could. So, he remained where he was, leaving the feet of distance in between them.
"But if we had been doing whatever you actually wanted from the beginning, what would we have been doing?" Finn pressed. The pieces just weren't coming together for him. She said that she wasn't attracted to him, that she had never liked things as much as she thought she was supposed to have, but that everything had been fine. There was something that he was missing.