Sometimes they are. Sometimes they're not. But sometimes you are, either wrong or antagonistic. And I think it's important to recognize when you're handling something in a bad way, and to try to make it better, or make amends if you've hurt someone, whatever the case may be. I'm not going to judge every conversation, but sometimes you need to take a step back and think about what you want to say before you say it instead of just jumping right into it. Sometimes there's a better way to handle a conversation. If someone's being antagonistic, you don't have to do it back. People will listen more, trust me. Maybe they don't think you listen to them. It probably goes both ways, but you can't change what they do. You're only in control of yourself.