Yeah, okay, let's make this all about how I'm over-fucking-sensitive and need to be coddled by the ooooh scary word choice and not about how when I gave you an out to explain yourself and NOT come off like a dick, you doubled down.
Whatever makes you happy, bro. Do all the damage control you want. Maybe hey, you're not a fucking homophobe and this was just a clusterfuck of misunderstanding. But I know your backstory and But I don't fucking care at this point; you're still an asshole.