Most people are, yes, so I don't blame anyone for being scared. Hell, I play the girl, and I am scared of her!! And that's probably a number one reason they won't get along, because he is nicer to her because she is a girl.
Wow. Sorry. This is a complication of being a mod...I confuse names of PBs with names of characters, lol and things. Sorry! Shawn. James is a lot like Shawn. And that sounds like a good idea to me. James will do his best to help. He's usually pretty good, but you know how that goes...