Had you been horrible and only there for Hope, you wouldn't have been family to me. You'd be the mother to my niece. Somehow you've incorporated yourself into this family.
Then stand by the fact she is considering killing a Mikaelson without consulting Klaus first. If she doesn't want the child, she's not required to be in its life. She can last the few months and be under our protection during the time, and if she so desires, then she can leave. But we've provided plenty of evidence we have an interest in the child.