So your child won't eat vegetables, that's nothing to beat yourself up over. Do you know how many times little Elijah, Nik and Rebekah don't listen? Constantly. You just let them think they are getting their way and find a way around the problem. You're doing fine. She wasn't on this anti-veggie kick until the other kids started talking about it, which means she'll likely eat the veggies when presented to her. It's that or go to bed on an empty tummy, isn't it?