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The Truth! Why Men Cheat; Video [09 Jan 2021|05:39pm]
I always get a little scared when women ask me: “Why do men cheat on their wives or girlfriends?” Simply because I know it’s quite a sensitive subject. The same is true when it comes to women looking for signs of a cheating man.

But of course, the most straightforward answer to the question – why a man cheats – is very simple, by saying:

“Because he’s an incredible jerk and a bastard.”

…And you know what? If that’s what your girlfriends tell you, it’s no big deal.

It’s their job to stand up for you and take your side 100%. Especially when you’re in a situation where he hurt you.

Then this is the only cause you want to hear why he was cheating on you.

But it’s not the true cause of why men commit adultery
Look:

I’m not here to be the nice guy and just tell you the things you want to hear. I’m assuming your family and friends will do this.

So if you’re still sad because your husband cheated on you, skip this video. It’s full of things you absolutely don’t want to hear.

But if you want to know the real reasons why your husband cheated on you, continue listening.

It’s not a pleasant truth, but at least it helps you to understand that it’s actually not his fault.



So why do men cheat?

First of all you need to understand that men are simple creatures. They have needs and if those needs aren't being met, they're going to go elsewhere to get those needs met. That's just biology. Women don't get it because women don't need sex. It's a choice for us. Men are wired differently. For men, sex is as vital as the air we breathe and the food and water we consume daily. If your man isn't getting sexual gratification from you, he's going to get it from someone else. It's not an insult, it's literally something he can't control so if you don't want him cheating, start doing what you gotta do.

What about if your sexual life is active? What if you're giving him what he needs daily? His appetite might be bigger than you think and he still needs more but he doesn't want to pressure you to do more than you can do, which is actually extremely considerate. And if those first two answers aren't doing it for you, hear me out on the next one.

Like I said, men are simple creatures but they're still apex predators. They're programmed to love the hunt and most married men will do their best to suppress that urge but they're denying their true nature. And when you dangle a fresh hot juicy steak in front of a dog, it doesn't matter how well he's being fed. He's going to eat the steak. You don't get angry at a dog for eating food being placed in front of him.

So who's fault is it? Well, who's trying to lure your dog away with a steak. Maybe we should stop pointing the finger at men because they can't control themselves, and start realizing that women are our own worst enemies.

For all you man stealing whores out there? Take a look inward at your life and choices and change. There's nothing empowering about turning yourself into meat for a man. Married women? A well fed man might still go for steak, but if you fill him up enough? He might not go off hunting to find his next meal. Just saying.

I hope you liked the video and stay tuned for the next one. Comment below No hate please!
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