You get used to it. There are 8 other versions of me here, most of the new people that I meet know me personally these days.
I know he had a troubled past, he'd been raised in some difficult conditions and had some trouble adjusting to the rules of our society here. He came to me with his friends and asked for help and we were able to help him get situated. If you and your friends have issues, we can help you here too. If your version of Seth was like his, I think you all might need it sooner or later.