- Actually that's exactly what it means. - Relationships are different to those inside them than from what you see from the outside. - They're especially different when one is an Ifrit and the other is bonded to you inseparably by blood. - You want someone to be true to you and only you and I think that's great. I want that, too. - But sometimes your heart can surprise you with what it can put up with and forgive so that you can be with the person you love. - Real love is not a fairy tale. Real love needs constant work.