If it's more the second one... Steve, you are so worthy of love. You are so worth the effort of a relationship. Hell, we're just friends and I would chase after you all day long if I had to and it has nothing to do with the packaging and everything to do with the person you in your heart and at your core.
And if it's more the third... I mean, I don't know what to say. Is this someone you are in a relationship with back in the real world?