Family Filter
There might be words like 'attitude' and 'respect' and 'that's cursing and isn't allowed' that get thrown about, but I like your perspective on the matter.
I'm pretty sure Lila knew right away. I got the hint like the second time you were still here in the morning because we know dad isn't a morning person. So pretense not needed.
And I'm not that clumsy! Like sure there was one time I stabbed myself in the foot, but that was because I got pins and needles in my hand and dropped the knife, nothing to do with a predisposition away from grace.