Okay, so same kind of mentality and a lot less flash. It is a private day to spend with family but we put out flowers (usually Chrysanthemums) and have a big family dinner. It is nice to have a day of remembrance.
This has made me realize I would love to hold a lantern festival here one night. We could have magically enhanced lanterns (so they won't harm the environment) and send our good wishes to family, friends, and whoever else that aren't with us or has left. They're not dead but we can still send them good thoughts and prayers.