[margaery | arya]
The hell that she's suffered at the hands of men undoubtedly left a scar. While it may fade with time? Its permanence will be prevalent. As much as she may get under your skin? Deep down, you know she would never use your personal hell from our world against you.
I am relieved you can see the fault in your words and hold regret over them. Give her some time and then make it right.