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Bonnie Bennett ([info]phasmatos) wrote in [info]somerealityweb,
@ 2021-01-12 15:52:00

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Entry tags:active: angel, active: bonnie bennett

Filter: Angel

How long is too long to let you be extra brood before I ask if you're okay?


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[info]broodysoul
2021-01-12 10:11 pm UTC (link)
Is it that obvious?

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[info]phasmatos
2021-01-12 10:18 pm UTC (link)
Only because I know you.

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[info]broodysoul
2021-01-12 10:28 pm UTC (link)
I'm alright. I wish she hadn't been sent back, but she'll be back home with her friends.

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[info]phasmatos
2021-01-12 10:32 pm UTC (link)
It's usually better that way, but I wish she hadn't either...for your sake.

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[info]broodysoul
2021-01-12 10:44 pm UTC (link)
The suddenness of it all is the hardest part, at least for me. I know others have had multiple people to leave; some more than once.

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[info]phasmatos
2021-01-12 10:55 pm UTC (link)
You're right. A lot of us had people come and go. I'm part of the more than once crowd. It's always sudden and never sucks less.

And hearing 'maybe they'll come back'? Never helps.

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[info]broodysoul
2021-01-12 11:26 pm UTC (link)
What did you do to work past it?

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[info]phasmatos
2021-01-12 11:54 pm UTC (link)
I didn't. It's still there in the back of my mind, but having my friends helped.

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[info]broodysoul
2021-01-13 05:54 pm UTC (link)
I guess it's something that's always going to be there in the back of one's mind as a possibility.

With a couple centuries under my belt,you could say that I'm not a stranger to outliving those around me. This is just another type of loss to work through.

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[info]phasmatos
2021-01-13 09:04 pm UTC (link)
It never goes away. Instead, it just kind of hangs out there and reminds you that it is there whenever you get too comfy.

Survivors guilt is an entirely different conversation, but yeah. This kind of loss is different. At least with death, there is some type of closure.

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