oh dear, usually I'm always 'oh, poor harry!' but here it's more poor all! I loved that your story had a certain realness to it... because it happens just like that in reality: gay men having wife and children, cheating, never saying anything until they are found out.. I think that's one of the aspects that make it hard to read. another aspect is that usually fan fiction readers are quite allright with infidelity if the boys are not cheating on each other with other men, harry cheating on ginny is easier to read because we feel our dream pairing true love couple is not threatened. the cheating on ginny is often mentioned very little or glossed over. here you give a very complex portray on how and what it's like to be the cheating man, the consequences and how it all affects previous relationships, friendships etc. I think you did a wonderful job with this story, well done!!!